I, myself, had never considered a harness.  However, after joining with For Your Pleasure, Inc., I've learned some new things about them.  Very interesting.

Many people may think that harnesses/strap ons are just for lesbians.  Well, actually, they're not.  Although they are a wonderful accessory for lesbian couples, they are also great for men with ED, perhaps after surviving prostate cancer, and they still want to have the "whole physical sensations" of sex.  What I'm saying is the pelvic thrusting and such.  The whole movement part of it that they used to experience.

Many straight women are also now considering and buying harnesses for anal play with their straight male partners.  Wow, huh?  I know.  We know that stimulation of the prostate (the male g-spot or a-spot) can give a man a very powerful orgasm, and many couples are engaging in anal play just for this purpose.  The harness can make a woman feel very sexy just by putting it on, and can further expand their forms of play by using a harness for the stimulation.

Most all harnesses come with pelvic protectors that can be removed if you'd like.  Don't wanna have a stray pubic hair get pulled, huh?  Totally ruins the mood.  They also have removable rings to put your toy in to adjust for the size of your toy.  Your toy must have a base with a "flange" all the way around.  If it does not or only has one that goes part way around, it won't hold in the ring.

Harnesses can come in all types of materials such as leather, rubber, back-pack type straps, etc. and are fully adjustable to fit any size.  They can also come in 2 or 3 strap styles.  The 2 strap styles are sort of like g-string panties with no back, just goes around the thighs, and the 3 strap style is similar to a thong.  This, however, would tend to get in the way of the vaginal area, so do keep that in mind.

You can "customize" your harness/toy with a c-ring or bullet too.  Place the bullet where you would like, such as in a small pouch that some harnesses come with, or the c-ring towards the receiver or the giver.  This adds some extra sensations with vibration!

The possibilities are up to your imagination.  Give it a try and you may be surprised at just how fun this can be and how sexy it can make you feel!

Chris
http://www.athomewithpleasure.com
http://www.fyppartier.webs.com